tell me what you think

hello guys im new to this one of my friend told me bout this site so here i go.
They say you should never search for love you should just find it naturally,well I tried both of them and i was unable to find either. like i wanna be n a relationship but as time goes on i am becomin norm and more content with begin alone i don't wanna be like that because when i actually get with someone it will be hard 4 me to open up to them because i was use to bein by my self.it seems like when i meet some one smoothing some where just wasn't right.i often ask my self is it me or is it them ,im only 21 ALOT of older people tell me im too young to want to be in love but i say no im not.
tell me what you think